To explain, let me tell you a story.
There was a man called Sam who left the army and decided to live in civilian life.
At first, he enjoyed the change but eventually, he lost control of his life. He found it hard to find steady employment, he started to run out of savings, he was consuming too much drugs and alcohol and he was starting to feel depressed.
Also, his partner had left him and would not let his kids communicate with him. He found himself in a deep hole and could not get out no matter how hard he tried.
He called out for help and the first person who walked by was a doctor. He explained that he was stuck in the hole and could not get out. The doctor prescribed some medication and said to see him in a couple of weeks if he was still stuck in the hole and he would prescribe some more medication.
The next person to walk by was a priest. He explained that he was stuck in a hole and could not get out. The priest said a prayer and asked God to help him find a way out of the hole. He said to see him in a couple of weeks if he were stuck in the hole and they would say some more prayers.
The next person to come along was a lawyer. He explained that he had been stuck in a hole for a long time and could not find a way out. The lawyer gave him a business card and said to see him if he had any legal problems. His fee was $350 per hour.
Finally, a man walked by, and Sam yelled out for help. The man said he could see Sam was stuck in a hole. Sam said, “Who are you?” The man said I am a life coach. I have been stuck in many holes in my life and I can show you the way out.
